Life, life is full of ups and downs. Sometimes in life, things may seem to go smoothly, where everything just falls in place perfectly. At the same time, while things are going perfectly well for one, we must remember and bare in mind that there is someone out there that is struggling and going through obstacles. Thus, by having a mindset as such, we will appreciate and treasure our time of perfectness we may feel.

So there, my friend, you may be in deep sorrow while some are out there smiling on a rainy day like this. Well, you need to know and have faith that every single thing that happens and revolves around you is of god’s decision. Everything has past and is over. Nothing can be changed. Take this as a challenge. This feeling and experience is a phase of life that everyone will have to go through. Your time is now. Fight it off and pick yourself up. Or it might just drag you down. Remember, what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. Prove that, to YOURSELF.

I also have to say that, by failing we learn our mistakes. Sometimes failing just once won’t be enough for us to identify the steps that we were missing out on or doing wrongly. Thus, we tend to fail again. Nonetheless, keep working towards your goal and never give up. Because ones you do, you are no longer in the game. This then makes you, the loser.

I know the feeling of being a failure, it sucks. It drags your self esteem from way up there down to zero. I’ve been there and time may repeat itself. Then again, isn’t that just a feeling or thought? Change that and you can always be a winner, inside. Being in the state of feeling like a failure once, always gives me the drive to work hard and smart to not be in such a state again. I’ve been in your shoes, maybe not literally. All I am saying is, I understand how you feel, and you can always talk to me.

To my friend that is always a winner in my eyes.

- tengku Danial